Relationship Problems & Advice šŸ¤” | GRWM

    Everybody deals with relationship problems, but sometimes we don't realize these problems are here to help us learn, heal, and grow. I wanted to share my thoughts on how to deal with relationship issues because I see everybody dealing with them (myself included). This chat focuses on the frustrations you may have with your significant other/friends/family and the desire to want them to change.

    One thing I should have mentioned first is how important it is to COMMUNICATE. Honest and clear communication is key in any relationship! I realize I could go on and on with more advice so let me know if you want to see more videos on relationships! Comment all your questions below as usual šŸ˜š. Sending lots of love for your journey and growth!

    // timestamps
    0:20 - instead of focusing on what's wrong, focus on what's right
    1:06 - wanting your loved one to change
    2:55 - ask: what can I learn from this?
    4:32 - release your expectations
    5:34 - learning to love yourself unconditionally
    6:15 - abuse & recognizing your boundaries
    7:48 - best thing you can do instead of forcing someone to change
    8:28 - relationship tips recap: patience, loving unconditionally, self love
    8:51 - relationships are mirrors, they reveal where you can heal & grow

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    Filmed & Edited by Aileen Xu
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    Iā€™m Aileen, a lifestyle blogger sharing knowledge and inspiration on creating your dream life.

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